13 untold séx secrets you need to kno
If you ever choose to indulge in a
day-to-day chore or a mundane
hobby over having séx with your
partner, you need to give it a
serious thought.
The idea of séxual intimacy changes all the time for
us
At one point in life, we’re craving for it.
And at another point, we’re feigning headaches to
avoid it.
You’d see this kind of behavior in many
relationships.
At the beginning, you can’t keep your hands off
your lover no matter where you are.
But as the relationship grows, séx can start to feel
more like a chore if you haven’t created ways to
make séx feel more éxciting.
The untold séx secrets you need to know
Firstly, séx isn’t a secret. It’s natural and as
humans, we’ve been doing it for a very long
time. But rewind back a few thousand years, and
you’d see that humans weren’t really monogamous.
As time passed by, we’ve understood the benefits of
monogamy and society has engrained into our
minds that monogamy works out better for us in
the long run.
Loneliness and lack of emotional intimacy versus
lots of séx, which would you prefer?
Séx isn’t a secret, but the ways to ensure that séx
stays éxciting in a monnogamous relationship,
well, that’s definitely a secret worth knowing,
wouldn’t you say.
There are some couples who always seem to have
the perfect relationship with the perfect séx life,
and then, there are most others who have a really
hard time staying happy in one.
The biggest séx secret you need to know is the
recipe for perfect romance. And it needs just two
ingredients, unconditional love and lustful passion.
If you can truly love each other AND stay séxually
attracted to each other even after several years of
marriage or dating each other, you’re definitely in
the right path.
13 séx secrets to a better séx life
Staying in love is easy if you’re a compatible couple
that understands each other perfectly. But getting
intensely attracted to each other séxually a few
years into the relationship, well, that’s definitely the
hard part.
If you ever choose to indulge in a day-to-day chore
or a mundane hobby over having séx with your
partner, you need to give it a serious thought.
What could start off as a small excuse to avoid séx
could turn into voluntary abstinence over time.
If you want to have a great séx life and keep the
sizzle of séxual attraction alive in your relationship,
even years after lying in the same bed with each
other, you need to understand these 13 séx secrets.
These séx secrets will help you understand what it
takes to feel séxy, and keep your partner interested
in you, and give you the perfect romance that will
be envied by other couples.
#1 Séx isn’t all physical attraction but… It’s
been said that romantic séx isn’t all about physical
appearances, but we all know that good looks can
increase the séx appeal by a long way. Work out
and try to look better for each other. The fitter you
look, the séxier you’d look and feel, and that’ll
definitely increase your séx appeal and make you a
better lover too.
#2 Attention makes you séxy. The more you’re
admired by other members of the opposite séx, the
more your partner will séxually desire you and stay
interested in you. Attention from the opposite séx
always has this effect on our partners.
In a long term relationship, both partners would
start to take each other’s séx appeal for granted.
After all, when something’s easily accessible, it’s
easy to overlook its value. But when your partner is
standing in a crowd and getting everyone’s
attention, that’s when you’d realize just how
awesome and séxy your partner truly is.
#3 Regular séx is monnotonous séx. Séx
always gets monotonous and boring if you don’t try
something new every now and then. Séx isn’t just
about penetration. It’s what you do with each other
before, during and after séx that makes
lovemaking feel more special.
#4 Talking is séxy. When two lovers talk about
séx, it helps each other understand the other
partner’s desires and expectations better. Talking
about séx even when you’re not having séx is
always great for the relationship. So don’t be a
prude, speak up and your séx will only get better.
#5 Hide your séxy bits. Don’t be nakéd all the
time in front of your partner. The more you walk
around nakéd in the bedroom when you’re not
getting intimaté, the more both of you will end up
séxually desensitizéd.
If you’re out at a party, and unexpectedly see a
flash of your partner’s skin, doesn’t it turn you
onn? Create the same séxual éxcitement in béd.
Dress up and don’t reveal it all at once.
#6 Missionary rules. The missionary position is
the most comfortable and the most intimaté of séx
positions. Evolution has taught us to have séx
while facing each other, and that’s something very
few species can do. Use it to build the romantic
connection, but every now and then, try to vary the
positions.
If one of you feel like a position is uncomfortable,
try something else. You never know how a new
position could feel until you try something new
now and then.
#7 Séxy imagination. Whether you accept it or
not, your mind would definitely stray while having
séx with your partner. It’s obviously not easy to just
stare into each other’s eyes for a good half an hour
with a blank head. Instead of hiding your thoughts
while making love, talk about it. Exploring each
other’s imagination in bed is a séxy rush that’ll
make séx a lot more éxciting and lustful.
Have an active imagination, read and watch porn,
and talk about your fantasies. It’ll bring back that
spark you’re craving for, and each time a fantasy
gets boring, talk about something new!
#8 Séx is happiness. Having séx regularly
makes you a happy person. Just like working out
or shopping, séx too stimulatés the release of
endorphins that make you feel good about
yourself. Séx can relieve a headache, eliminate
stress, and make you feel calmer and more
confident at an interview. So instead of avoiding
séx when you’re stréssed, indulge in it. It’ll make
you and your partner feel better and bond better
too.
#9 Men and women and the way they look
at séx. Men and women just don’t look at
lovémaking the same way. Men are visual creatures
that are aroused by what they see physically, while
women are more aroused by emotional intimaacy
and what they hear and feel while making lové.
#10 Drunk séx. Intoxicaants like alcohol can at
times be the biggest aphrodisiacs. Alcohol in small
amounts reduces inhibition, which makes you open
up more and feel relaxed while getting undressed
in the company of another person.
Alcohol consumption in males reduces the
testosterone levels which reduces their libido
proportionally to the alcohol they consume. On the
other hand, alcohol consumption increases the
téstosterone levels in women. For most women,
increase in alcohol consumption creates an
increase in séxual satisfaction during orgaasms.
#11 Dress up and look séxy. Look your best
around your partner instead of dressing down in
frayed overalls all the time. If you can do that
right, there’s a good chance that your partner
won’t cheat on you.
Here’s the reason why. If you find someone
séxually attractive, you’d find it very hard to lie to
them or do something that may offend them. So
instead of hiring a private eye or suffocating your
partner into staying loyal to you, just ensure that
your partner still finds you séxually attractive.
#12 Foréplay is a big part. The longer the
foreplay, the more intense the orgasms and the
pleasure both of you experience. So the next time
both of you are under the sheets, don’t go straight
for the big act. Take your time to warm up, and the
séx will last a lot longer. And good foréplay can
even help a man who’s having a hard time staying
up stay up for longer.
#13 True love doesn’t define a perfect
romance. True love is not the same as intense
séxual attraction. This is the biggest séx secret that
can quash a lot of misconceptions about romantic
relationships. Experiencing true love will not give
you the perfect relationship. True love is love. But a
perfect relationship needs more. It needs love and
lust to be successful.
When you’re in a relationship, don’t just hold
hands and walk down a street and assume you’re
in the perfect romance. Push your partner against
a wall now and then and make out too. Well, then
you’d definitely have the perfect blend of love and
lust, the perfect ingredients for romantic love.
Remember these 13 séx secrets and use them in
your relationship.
And don’t ever let séxual
intimaacy stagnaté in a relationship, because a
perfect relationship needs more than just love to
stay perfect. It needs a good dose of passionaté séx
too.
day-to-day chore or a mundane
hobby over having séx with your
partner, you need to give it a
serious thought.
The idea of séxual intimacy changes all the time for
us
At one point in life, we’re craving for it.
And at another point, we’re feigning headaches to
avoid it.
You’d see this kind of behavior in many
relationships.
At the beginning, you can’t keep your hands off
your lover no matter where you are.
But as the relationship grows, séx can start to feel
more like a chore if you haven’t created ways to
make séx feel more éxciting.
The untold séx secrets you need to know
Firstly, séx isn’t a secret. It’s natural and as
humans, we’ve been doing it for a very long
time. But rewind back a few thousand years, and
you’d see that humans weren’t really monogamous.
As time passed by, we’ve understood the benefits of
monogamy and society has engrained into our
minds that monogamy works out better for us in
the long run.
Loneliness and lack of emotional intimacy versus
lots of séx, which would you prefer?
Séx isn’t a secret, but the ways to ensure that séx
stays éxciting in a monnogamous relationship,
well, that’s definitely a secret worth knowing,
wouldn’t you say.
There are some couples who always seem to have
the perfect relationship with the perfect séx life,
and then, there are most others who have a really
hard time staying happy in one.
The biggest séx secret you need to know is the
recipe for perfect romance. And it needs just two
ingredients, unconditional love and lustful passion.
If you can truly love each other AND stay séxually
attracted to each other even after several years of
marriage or dating each other, you’re definitely in
the right path.
13 séx secrets to a better séx life
Staying in love is easy if you’re a compatible couple
that understands each other perfectly. But getting
intensely attracted to each other séxually a few
years into the relationship, well, that’s definitely the
hard part.
If you ever choose to indulge in a day-to-day chore
or a mundane hobby over having séx with your
partner, you need to give it a serious thought.
What could start off as a small excuse to avoid séx
could turn into voluntary abstinence over time.
If you want to have a great séx life and keep the
sizzle of séxual attraction alive in your relationship,
even years after lying in the same bed with each
other, you need to understand these 13 séx secrets.
These séx secrets will help you understand what it
takes to feel séxy, and keep your partner interested
in you, and give you the perfect romance that will
be envied by other couples.
#1 Séx isn’t all physical attraction but… It’s
been said that romantic séx isn’t all about physical
appearances, but we all know that good looks can
increase the séx appeal by a long way. Work out
and try to look better for each other. The fitter you
look, the séxier you’d look and feel, and that’ll
definitely increase your séx appeal and make you a
better lover too.
#2 Attention makes you séxy. The more you’re
admired by other members of the opposite séx, the
more your partner will séxually desire you and stay
interested in you. Attention from the opposite séx
always has this effect on our partners.
In a long term relationship, both partners would
start to take each other’s séx appeal for granted.
After all, when something’s easily accessible, it’s
easy to overlook its value. But when your partner is
standing in a crowd and getting everyone’s
attention, that’s when you’d realize just how
awesome and séxy your partner truly is.
#3 Regular séx is monnotonous séx. Séx
always gets monotonous and boring if you don’t try
something new every now and then. Séx isn’t just
about penetration. It’s what you do with each other
before, during and after séx that makes
lovemaking feel more special.
#4 Talking is séxy. When two lovers talk about
séx, it helps each other understand the other
partner’s desires and expectations better. Talking
about séx even when you’re not having séx is
always great for the relationship. So don’t be a
prude, speak up and your séx will only get better.
#5 Hide your séxy bits. Don’t be nakéd all the
time in front of your partner. The more you walk
around nakéd in the bedroom when you’re not
getting intimaté, the more both of you will end up
séxually desensitizéd.
If you’re out at a party, and unexpectedly see a
flash of your partner’s skin, doesn’t it turn you
onn? Create the same séxual éxcitement in béd.
Dress up and don’t reveal it all at once.
#6 Missionary rules. The missionary position is
the most comfortable and the most intimaté of séx
positions. Evolution has taught us to have séx
while facing each other, and that’s something very
few species can do. Use it to build the romantic
connection, but every now and then, try to vary the
positions.
If one of you feel like a position is uncomfortable,
try something else. You never know how a new
position could feel until you try something new
now and then.
#7 Séxy imagination. Whether you accept it or
not, your mind would definitely stray while having
séx with your partner. It’s obviously not easy to just
stare into each other’s eyes for a good half an hour
with a blank head. Instead of hiding your thoughts
while making love, talk about it. Exploring each
other’s imagination in bed is a séxy rush that’ll
make séx a lot more éxciting and lustful.
Have an active imagination, read and watch porn,
and talk about your fantasies. It’ll bring back that
spark you’re craving for, and each time a fantasy
gets boring, talk about something new!
#8 Séx is happiness. Having séx regularly
makes you a happy person. Just like working out
or shopping, séx too stimulatés the release of
endorphins that make you feel good about
yourself. Séx can relieve a headache, eliminate
stress, and make you feel calmer and more
confident at an interview. So instead of avoiding
séx when you’re stréssed, indulge in it. It’ll make
you and your partner feel better and bond better
too.
#9 Men and women and the way they look
at séx. Men and women just don’t look at
lovémaking the same way. Men are visual creatures
that are aroused by what they see physically, while
women are more aroused by emotional intimaacy
and what they hear and feel while making lové.
#10 Drunk séx. Intoxicaants like alcohol can at
times be the biggest aphrodisiacs. Alcohol in small
amounts reduces inhibition, which makes you open
up more and feel relaxed while getting undressed
in the company of another person.
Alcohol consumption in males reduces the
testosterone levels which reduces their libido
proportionally to the alcohol they consume. On the
other hand, alcohol consumption increases the
téstosterone levels in women. For most women,
increase in alcohol consumption creates an
increase in séxual satisfaction during orgaasms.
#11 Dress up and look séxy. Look your best
around your partner instead of dressing down in
frayed overalls all the time. If you can do that
right, there’s a good chance that your partner
won’t cheat on you.
Here’s the reason why. If you find someone
séxually attractive, you’d find it very hard to lie to
them or do something that may offend them. So
instead of hiring a private eye or suffocating your
partner into staying loyal to you, just ensure that
your partner still finds you séxually attractive.
#12 Foréplay is a big part. The longer the
foreplay, the more intense the orgasms and the
pleasure both of you experience. So the next time
both of you are under the sheets, don’t go straight
for the big act. Take your time to warm up, and the
séx will last a lot longer. And good foréplay can
even help a man who’s having a hard time staying
up stay up for longer.
#13 True love doesn’t define a perfect
romance. True love is not the same as intense
séxual attraction. This is the biggest séx secret that
can quash a lot of misconceptions about romantic
relationships. Experiencing true love will not give
you the perfect relationship. True love is love. But a
perfect relationship needs more. It needs love and
lust to be successful.
When you’re in a relationship, don’t just hold
hands and walk down a street and assume you’re
in the perfect romance. Push your partner against
a wall now and then and make out too. Well, then
you’d definitely have the perfect blend of love and
lust, the perfect ingredients for romantic love.
Remember these 13 séx secrets and use them in
your relationship.
And don’t ever let séxual
intimaacy stagnaté in a relationship, because a
perfect relationship needs more than just love to
stay perfect. It needs a good dose of passionaté séx
too.
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