Long Distance Relationship Advice – How To Make Sure You Don’t Lose Touch
always conform to
convenience.
I’m always wary when giving long distance
relationship advice. Many people doubt that a
long distance relationship has the potential to
succeed. But with a little luck, a little know-how
and the effort and determination it takes, there is
no reason why you can’t live happily ever after.
There are three things that every woman should
know before committing to a long distance
relationship…
Know When You’ll Be Together
This is perhaps the most crucial piece of long
distance relationship advice I can give you.
Envision being together. Actually have an enticing
picture of where you’re going to live, what it’s going
to look like, and what what you’re going to be
doing, makes it all the more likely that it’s going to
happen. Let’s not kid ourselves; long distance
relationships are tough, and sometimes we need
that incentive to keep us going. And for me,
whether it’s a relationship, my work or my health, I
always find that by attaching my emotions to the
end goal, I’m all the more driven to get there.
As well as having a long term picture, you
absolutely have to know exactly when it is you’re
next going to see each other. Similarly to what I
talked about in, 3 first date tips for women, with a
long distance relationship, you always have to
know what’s going to happen next – and you
should make the future plans when you’re actually
with one another, rather than leaving it all to do
over late night Skype phone call.
Have Two Modes Of Communication
Many long distance couples resort to using either
Skype or the telephone as the sole means of staying
in touch. By all means choose one of these, but I
think it’s a nice touch to have a more romantic and
more personal way of staying in touch, that doesn’t
involve any 21st century technology.
Something I particularly love is letter writing.
Putting pen to paper unlocks something in your
mind that allows you to be more imaginative,
sincere and genuine, rather than shooting off a
quick email or text. Writing a letter takes time and
much thought, but it’s the best way of really
sustaining a connection with someone. Also, you’ll
have them to keep, which can be great to look back
on in years down the line. You can personalize your
messages with your doodles, and maybe even a
spray of your perfume so you know he’s thinking of
you.
Have The Right Foundations From The
Start
There is no room whatsoever for suspicion or
distrust in a long distance relationship. Everyone
has doubts at times, but you can’t become a
hawkshaw, trying to find out everything he’s doing,
all of the time. If the relationship is ever going to
work then you need to have full trust in one
another.
To best way to build this trust is to ask the
important questions from the onset. Make a
roadmap for what you’re going to do and how
you’re going to achieve it, and then stick to it no
matter what.
See yourselves as a team conquering the distance
between you; ruling over all those who have failed
before you. Make the time you do spend together
unforgetable and defy the distance.
When it comes to long distance relationship advice,
the more hints and tips you have up your sleeve to
surprise a guy with, the better the odds of you
succeeding together.
Now you know the basics of making a long
distance relationship succeed, it’s crucial
you know what to do to really move things
along for the future…
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