My Husband Is Too Dirty; I Want A Seperate Room

We have been married for about 2years

now and have a child. We had a distant

relationship so we didn't really live

together for me to notice his dirty habit. I

moved to his location few months after our

wedding and since then, it beena terrible

experience for me. He is just too dirty.

doesn't wash his hands after using the

toilet even when there are urine drops on

his hands, he just wipes with his trousier,

we have two batherooms, one for each

room.

 Initially we were sharing one

bathroom but I had to stop using it because

of him. After toiletting, he will not washer

with brush even when there is water. soap

and brush and the toilet bowl is splattered

with his feaces. He said its beneath him to

wash the toilet, that how can a man wash

the toilet? I had to switch to my ownership

bathroom which thankfully has a toilet. He

uses his for as long as 3months without

washing neither toilet or bathroom. I was

washing it before but I just had to stop

when he said its beneath him to wash his

own toilet, that its a woman's duty.

Secondly he is too unkempth and lives a

scattered life, throws clothes anywhere,

can wear one sleeping trousier for one

month,after sex, he will use d same

trousier to wipe his dicccck and still wear

it, can sleep on an unmade bed for as long

as possible. Never makes the bed insisting

its s duty of a woman to make the bed

everynight. Most times when he sleeps

before me, I wake him up so I will make the

bed, he will ask why didn't I make the bed

before he slept, that I should make only my

part I want to sleep on with our baby. Its

all irritating and the worse of all is after I

complain like forever, he says he is a

Yoruba man that is used to dirtyness. I

should get used to it. I dated a Yoruba man

before I met him and that man is a direct

opposite, neat to a fault. So I know its not

an issue of him being a Yoruba man.

This man will drink satchet water, and

leave the satchet lying about for days, I was

picking up all his trash before but I have

since stopped after he repeatedly said that

its my duty to pick up the dirt he throws

anywhere he likes. He will have a trash

basket right infront of him but will still

drop dirt on the bare floor.

Early Last month, a nurse came around to

take his blood sample for some test cos he

wasnt feeling well, till now as i am writing

this, the cotton wool he used to wipe the

blood from the skin surface is still lying on

his part of the wardrobe.

I am the type that encourages brushing the

teeth twice a day but my hubby has refused

to be doing it. He has a little mouth odour

and will not help himself. He is always

rubbing his diccccckkk with his bare hands

and uses same hands to touch everything in

the house.

I sweep and mob the house regularly but

he will just mess it up the minute am thru.

We have a second room we reserved for

our kids but from the look of things, I am

considering setting the room up for myself.

The funny thing about this is that outside,

he is a seen as a clean man and very very

goodlooking but inside, he is a dirty pig.