LADIES. STOP PRETENDING OR FAKING IT IN A RELATIONSHIP
to her partner is only fooling and hurting herself.
I do really feel sorry for humans for their
indignities and insecurities.
Most of them are often suffering and smiling in
relationship and marriage.
I do try to help as much as I can, but since I am
not God I cannot help everybody who needs help.
There are too many people pretending in their
relationship in Nigeria.
A recent poll on Nigerian youths reported that
majority of them are on drugs due to depression
caused by poverty and unemployment.
I am not surprised since the unemployed are more
than the employed in Nigeria. And when you are
broke and brokenhearted, you suffer from low
esteem and with jealousy for those who are making
it and enjoying their success and you often envy
them.
I really do feel sorry for your predicament. And
there are no safety nets in Nigeria as you would
have known by the misery of the majority of the
poor masses.
Several ex-girlfriends still come around, including
the married ones whose husbands have failed to
make them happy. The most challenging are the
young women who cannot find men who can take
care of them when their poor parents cannot
provide for them.
The predicament is poor people who cannot even
have three square meals a day want to marry and
have kids when the millions of kids brought into
this hostile country are still suffering and dying in
abject poverty and insecurity.
Why pretend and end up in a miserable marriage
and bring innocent kids who never asked to be
born into your mess.
To worsen an already bad situation, majority of
Nigerian guys and older men prefer to take
advantage of poor girls and those who are
intellectually re-tarded.
The cheaper they are the better for these guys and
older men in Nigeria.
They just want to use these unfortunate girls and
women to satisfy their lusts and petty egos. And
when they get them pregnant, they despise them.
Majority of Nigerian guys and older men are not
worth dating.
Why?
Majority of them are poor and cannot help their
equally poor girls and poor women.
Many of them cannot even afford to buy regular
sanitary towels and other essential needs for their
girlfriends and wives. And cannot afford
recommended diapers for their kids.
Majority of the poor girls and women in the
western and northern regions of Nigeria don’t even
wear underwear. grin
Yet, I have seen them dating and most of them are
useless relationships.
Relationships that cannot add value to life.
Is it not pathetic that all you have to enjoy in a
relationship is s*e*x?
Any relationship that cannot add value to your life
is worthless.
Just end it and invest your time in more valuable
things.
Stop pretending to him and stop pretending to her.
Stop dating NFAs (No Future Ambition persons).
Be honest, lest you waste your life in foolish
relationships.
I have even seen it more in marriages.
Many of our girls and women are sympathy
collectors.
But pity is not love.
You deserve to be loved and not pitied.
I have noticed that the girls who attract more
attention from boys and men are often those we
call “Ọ̀dẹ” in Yoruba language, that is dummy.
Nigerian guys love babes who have low IQ that they
can cheat and intimidate.
How do you know this?
Just go to the local clubs and pubs, and you will see
boys and men making fun of even their so called
girlfriends and share jokes on how they lured and
forked them and even show their na-ked pictures
on their mobile phones to brag about how they
fooled these unfortunate girls, women and wives.
Nigerian men even think they can cheat, but their
girlfriends and wives dare not cheat.
The most unfaithful men are ironically the most
jealous.
You cannot give what you don’t have. And faking it
is really a waste of your time.
The sooner you stop faking and pretending to your
lover or spouse, the better, healthier and safer you
would be.
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