You got these? 7 personality traits that makes a guy ‘boyfriend material’

   Whether that is goal is to be a lawyer,

entrepreneur, businessman, or even a

professional video game tester, he

should at the very least have a plan to get

to where he wants to be. His future and

plans for such should always be on the

horizon. Or else, you’ll be moving on,

and he’ll be holding you.  back!

   In today’s world, it’s so hard to find a guy that

totally “gets you,” isn’t over-confident, has no

player-like tendencies, and has all the qualities

that would make him perfect boyfriend material.

While no one is ever perfect, there are some

personality traits that would make him come

just within reach, or at least perfect to you! In

my opinion, these personality traits are

something every guy should possess if they want

to be perfect boyfriend material and become the

one you want to be with for the long haul!

1. Honest

Dishonesty is such a big, big deal breaker. No

one wants to deal with a guy who constantly lies

about his feelings, whereabouts, friends or

anything else important. And, yes, that includes

little white lies too, because if he lies about liking

your outfit, there’s no telling whether he feels he

can lie about something else! I (and I assume

you ladies too) value the truth, in all situations.

It’s always the number one determining quality

that I look for in someone I’m dating when

deciding if he has all the right traits to be perfect

boyfriend material!

2. Intelligent

Intelligence is such a huge turn-on. Instead of

trying to impress you with corny pick-up lines,

he should be trying to impress you with

knowledge. Intelligence is so important because

it lets you know that he can make smart

decisions and inferences, form thought-

provoking opinions, and carry interesting

conversations. There is nothing worse than a

guy whom you can’t have a decent conversation

with. You guys should be able to learn from one

another and expand as people.

3. Open-Minded

Open-mindedness is such a good quality to

have. If someone is willing to try something new,

is open to innovative ideas, opinions, adventure,

different styles and just an overall willingness to

accept things without a cloud of judgment

hanging above, he is a great guy in my book. If

the guy you’re crushing on or already in a

relationship with has this personality trait, then

I’d say he’s a keeper!

4. Humorous

Laughter is one of life’s simplest pleasures. A

guy that can make you laugh in times of

heartache, times of depression or

embarrassment, sadness or despair, or even just

a regular day, is a guy that will help nurture a

healthy relationship. Not that he has to be a

jokester all the time, or a class clown per se, but

a guy that can make light of the situations that

might be difficult for you can surely make you

feel a lot better. Laughter is a powerful medicine

after all.

5. Caring/Thoughtful

I know I always want to look for someone who

has a caring nature. I want to make sure that at

the end of the day, he’ll be there when I need

him, and that he’ll actually want to be there.

Nothing is worse than being in a relationship, or

getting to know someone and realizing that the

only things they care about are themselves! You

want to know that, should you ever need solace

or comfort, they’ll be the shoulder you cry on.

6. Ambitious

Does your guy sit home all day eating Cheetos

and playing video games on the couch without

ever thinking of doing anything else? Then,

that’s definitely a warning sign that he might

not have the right qualities that make him

perfect boyfriend material. Now, I in no way

bash gamers, but he should want to accomplish

something in his life. Whether that is goal is to

be a lawyer, entrepreneur, businessman, or even

a professional video game tester, he should at

the very least have a plan to get to where he

wants to be. His future and plans for such

should always be on the horizon. Or else, you’ll

be moving on, and he’ll be holding you back!

7. Understanding

A guy that is understanding is a guy who listens.

Wouldn’t it be great if every guy listened AND

retained the information you told him? Well,

there are a few who do, and that definitely sets

them apart from the rest. You want a guy to

understand what you’re going through or the

opinions you have, even if they don’t necessarily

agree with them. Understanding is such an

essential personality trait because it lets you

know that communication between you two will

go more smoothly than someone who refuses to

see your point of view.

These are only but a few great personality traits

that help you determine whether he might be

perfect boyfriend material. Among amazing

traits that I look for in a guy, I’d also like him to

be charming, adventurous and of course

compassionate. What personality traits do you

feel make a guy perfect boyfriend material?

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